Full name people: Those who go by their fullname and always call others by their full names.
Short name people: Those who shorten their own name and everyone around them.
Nickname people: Those who lengthen or completely make up other names that don't really relate to the original name.
Now, I have no idea which type I am. So you know I am super confident in my initial categorizations...
I almost always introduce myself with my full name and I always write it out full on everything, but when people ask me what I want to be called I always say Rebecca or Becca. They ask which I prefer and I say I don't care. And I really don't. Sometimes I notice what they call me and it does seem more personal somehow when they call me Becca. That's what my whole family calls me. That's even what I call myself when I talk to myself. But it still seems wrong somehow to introduce myself as Becca.
Then there is how I address others. I tend to call people by the name they introduce themselves as (I would call myself Rebecca if I met me) and yet all my family I seem to have shortened even when most people call them by their full name.
In the book I wrote and the one I'm writing the main characters both go primarily by their nicknames. For Audrey she is almost insulted when people call her that (her fullname). And I end up giving most of my characters either really short names or nicknames that are one syllable: Oon, Hak, Will, Cor. Because apparently two syllables is just too long for me to write.
So basically, I am a full name person because I introduce myself with my full name, and I'm a short name person because I shorten my families and characters names.... and I guess I'm even a nickname person because there is a character in my book who renames people random things.
Maybe there are more types of people than just three...
It is interesting that you feel like Becca is more personal. Since everyone calls me Juli, it feels more personal to be called Julianna - or maybe I just feel special because they are taking the time to say all four syllables :) I usually introduce myself as Julianna, but I do get annoyed when people call me Juliann or Juli-ahh-na, so I end up encouraging people to just call me Juli. And I think there are a lot more than 3 kinds of people :p
ReplyDeleteI agree with Julianna. I often intentionally use a person's full name for the precise reasons she stated. Oh, I do use nicknames and shortened names when I feel playful, but when I want to make a deeper, more sincere connection I use full names. Maybe I got the idea from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, even though Indiana's father uses a nickname to make the personal connection at the end of the movie. The point is that he uses a name other than what he uses every day and the name that means something to Indy. I think both ways can be personal, though.
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