Sunday, October 4, 2015

Nicknames

I feel like there are three types of people.
Full name people: Those who go by their fullname and always call others by their full names.
Short name people: Those who shorten their own name and everyone around them.
Nickname people: Those who lengthen or completely make up other names that don't really relate to the original name.
Now, I have no idea which type I am. So you know I am super confident in my initial categorizations...
I almost always introduce myself with my full name and I always write it out full on everything, but when people ask me what I want to be called I always say Rebecca or Becca. They ask which I prefer and I say I don't care. And I really don't. Sometimes I notice what they call me and it does seem more personal somehow when they call me Becca. That's what my whole family calls me. That's even what I call myself when I talk to myself. But it still seems wrong somehow to introduce myself as Becca.
Then there is how I address others. I tend to call people by the name they introduce themselves as (I would call myself Rebecca if I met me) and yet all my family I seem to have shortened even when most people call them by their full name.
In the book I wrote and the one I'm writing the main characters both go primarily by their nicknames. For Audrey she is almost insulted when people call her that (her fullname). And I end up giving most of my characters either really short names or nicknames that are one syllable: Oon, Hak, Will, Cor. Because apparently two syllables is just too long for me to write. 
So basically, I am a full name person because I introduce myself with my full name, and I'm a short name person because I shorten my families and characters names.... and I guess I'm even a nickname person because there is a character in my book who renames people random things.
Maybe there are more types of people than just three... 

2 comments:

  1. It is interesting that you feel like Becca is more personal. Since everyone calls me Juli, it feels more personal to be called Julianna - or maybe I just feel special because they are taking the time to say all four syllables :) I usually introduce myself as Julianna, but I do get annoyed when people call me Juliann or Juli-ahh-na, so I end up encouraging people to just call me Juli. And I think there are a lot more than 3 kinds of people :p

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  2. I agree with Julianna. I often intentionally use a person's full name for the precise reasons she stated. Oh, I do use nicknames and shortened names when I feel playful, but when I want to make a deeper, more sincere connection I use full names. Maybe I got the idea from Indiana Jones and the Last Crusade, even though Indiana's father uses a nickname to make the personal connection at the end of the movie. The point is that he uses a name other than what he uses every day and the name that means something to Indy. I think both ways can be personal, though.

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